https://charlottessoul.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/10/deck-narcissist-Why-didnt-you-just-leave-.mp4 One of the questions people ask who do not understand the manipulative nature of narcissistic abuse is, “Why didn’t you just leave?” Most people who are victims of narcissistic abuse can get away from their captor; however, the effects of the abuse hijack the brain of the victim into surrendering themselves, their goals, and … Read more
I share a bit about what it was like to be abused compared to what it is like in recovery. For updates on my upcoming book, Bible on Narcissistic Abuse, and to see my other titles, please stay in touch at https://charlottessoul.com #charlottessoul #spoiledrottenrichkidadifferentkindoftrauma #theBibleonNarcissisticAbuse
Today marks fourteen years since I became aware I would have to fight to live. I was forty-two years old, with four sons; the youngest was seven, the oldest was sixteen, and there were two in between. Before my diagnosis, I was a nonstop powerhouse raising my athletic sons as my then-husband traveled frequently to … Read more
My abusive system would lead as many others as possible to think negatively about me, and now my second husband, whom they projected their wickedness onto. Such obstacles and walls built by those designed to love and support me meant I could never gain stability. I had no idea I was abused. I thought my … Read more
Reflections this Father’s Day: Hoping to Win the Approval of my Father We are wired to seek our Heavenly Father’s approval. For updates on my upcoming book, Bible on Narcissistic Abuse, and to see my other titles, please stay in touch at https://charlottessoul.com #charlottessoul #spoiledrottenrichkidadifferentkindoftrauma #theBibleonNarcissisticAbuse
If the impending Father’s Day and listening to all the colloquialisms from the great dads on Christian radio doesn’t resonate, you may feel like the only one with a dad who chose something besides you. Many of us had fathers who discarded the valuable gift God gave our parents in pursuit of something or someone … Read more
Reflections this Father’s Day: Hoping to Win the Approval of my Father We are wired to seek our Heavenly Father’s approval. For updates on my upcoming book, Bible on Narcissistic Abuse, and to see my other titles, please stay in touch at https://charlottessoul.com #charlottessoul #spoiledrottenrichkidadifferentkindoftrauma #theBibleonNarcissisticAbuse
We can celebrate our gifts and talents or focus on things we wish were different. In recovery, I became aware that the way I see and describe myself is what my system of “self” interprets to be true, even if it is not. I am.… We can celebrate our gifts and talents or focus on … Read more
In recovery, I became aware that the way I see and describe myself is what my system of “self” interprets to be true, even if it is not. The prayer to receive Jesus, no matter WHAT our past has in it sounds something like this. Dear Lord, I am a sinner in need of a … Read more
The prayer to receive Jesus, matter WHAT our past has in it sounds something like this. Dear Lord, I am a sinner in need of a savior. I have been trying my hardest and realize I do not have what it takes to prosper without Your forgiveness and leadership. I let go of the life … Read more