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Wholeness for your Soul through Balance

Charlotte's Soul

soul /sōl/ noun

Soul is the part of you that lives inside of you made in the image of God. This is the eternal part of you and the important part of you.
Your soul will be living inside of you forever.

Your soul is the real you.

Heartbeats For Cancer
Coaching: A Safe Space for Soul Searching
SPEAKING: Inspiring Messages to Illuminate the Soul

If you struggle to understand your purpose, where you belong, and how to find your best self doing soul work is for you.

Soul work is identifying your calling, manifesting your gifts and enhancing the lives of others through them.

You are a unique creation designed with a purpose. Soul work is leaning on inspired teachings, learning to trust yourself, and loving the lover of your soul.

Charlotte can help.

She’s done serious soul work.

For years, Charlotte gave away her heart.

She shared, gave generously and found herself empty. While her heart was focused on God, her soul was tucked away, shy, and afraid. In a sea of demands, mixed up priorities, and the enormous responsibility of a marriage and raising four children, Charlotte lost track of her soul.

After many challenges, struggles, and heart breaks, she now finds strength from engaging her soul.

Charlotte has discovered that the heart alone is fragile, easily torn and broken. The heart must be supported, encircled, and rooted in the soul. Over 163 times, the Bible declares that humans must engage both “heart and soul.” She longs to share her life’s lessons with you and help you do your own soul searching.

Wholeness for your Soul through Balance

Charlotte’s messages through her blog, her books, her coaching, and her speaking give you insights into how to navigate life through soul work.

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Emotional Abuse: Are You Empowering Someone Who Loves Power?

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Many of us step from our insecurities into a “safe” environment with someone whom we hope will satisfy our deep longings.

We feel we have finally found the person who will be the cure-all for our hidden wounds.

We find ourselves empowering someone who loves power.

We lose ourselves in the illusion of their strength and the pretense of their care.

We are much stronger than we know, and they are far more insecure than we realize.

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Stepping Into the Vast Unknown

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Whatever the future held, I was going to be free! #https://charlottessoul.com #CharlottesSoulThe day I signed a one-year lease to rent a condo,

after 22 years of fighting for my marriage, marked the first step I took towards actively caring for my emotions. It is astounding now, to look back, I realize how beaten down I was. I can’t imagine the courage and the faith I had, to step into an unknown future. All I knew was I could not take another lap around the cycle of emotional abuse and whatever the future held I was going to be free. As much as it would hurt to divide our family of six, staying and continuing the lie, was not just killing me, but it meant modeling abusive behavior. I was paving the road for future generations. I wanted more for my daughter in laws. I made a move for them as much as for myself.

Two years later, I assess where I am, the quality of my life and the breadth of my witness. I remarried a man of God who treasures me, models for my children how to love and care for a woman while being every bit of a strong, decisive leader. God planted me in a new town, where I have a vibrant social life, an incredible church, new family, and friends surround me.

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The Ants Go Marching In

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My departure would mean the end of a dream. Today I am going to share a glimpse of how my life was, as I struggled to decide whether to leave the emotional abuse in my former home.

My departure would mean the end of a dream.

It would mean the disintegration of my intact family, which I had poured my heart into for 22 years. I faced the uncertainty of not knowing if by leaving, I was stepping out of God’s will. I knew divorce would lead to the inevitable demotion from any church leadership with which I was involved.

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Beaten with Flowers

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Sometimes, recognizing the passive-aggressive manipulation, can take a life time.

This week I have decided to share a journal entry written the summer after I first moved out of my marital home. That summer, before I met my new husband, was a time when I regularly processed many things through the gift God gave me in writing. What I went through is not unique, but my faith and resilience are evident, as they were in “Heartbeats for Cancer.”

I intend to share more of this journey and how it felt to break free from emotional abuse, despite the urging of the church to stay in my toxic marriage. What I experienced is all too common. It is a darkness that needs to be exposed to support other abuse victims and their families, especially in the church. Many people stay under the misunderstanding that it is God’s will to uphold the institution of marriage despite the brutality pointed towards their soul.

13 But when anything is exposed by the light, it becomes visible,
14 for anything that becomes visible is light. Ephesians 5:13

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Love WarriorLove Warrior
by Glenon Doyel Melton

(This author has stirred controversy in the Christian community. I found great healing in this book.)

I am getting immense clarity and emotional healing from this book about how to identify and giving authority to all the voices in your head while identifying your core self.

Gift of ImperfectionThe Gifts of Imperfection This book brings me so much comfort as I a called to be vulnerable. A very healing resource.