Welcome
Wholeness for Your Soul through Balance is a way of getting to know and nourish the most valuable part of yourself. Your soul is the real you—the part that is made in the image of God. Your soul is the eternal part of you. Caring for your soul requires intentionality. I have learned this the hard way, and I am excited to help others come in contact with their true self so that the world can be blessed through each individual's uniqueness.
Welcome
Wholeness for Your Soul through Balance is a way of getting to know and nourish the most valuable part of yourself. Your soul is the real you—the part that is made in the image of God. Your soul is the eternal part of you. Caring for your soul requires intentionality. I have learned this the hard way, and I am excited to help others come in contact with their true self so that the world can be blessed through each individual's uniqueness.
Meet Charlotte
Charlotte Chaney inspires thousands through her speaking and writing.
With resilience and transparency, Charlotte shares her journey of overcoming narcissistic abuse, stage 3 rectal cancer, a toxic first marriage, divorce, raising four sons, living amid substance abuse, overcoming body image struggles, dating as a Christian, remarriage, and blending a family of 8 children.
An author and trusted voice, Charlotte brings humor and depth to life’s imperfections, guiding others to embrace their humanity and find hope through her soul-centered approach.
Her authentic storytelling connects deeply, offering inspiration to those facing similar trials.
Let’s Do Some SOUL WORK
Soul work is for you if you want help understanding your purpose, finding where you belong, and learning how to find your best self. Soul work is identifying your calling, manifesting your gifts and enhancing the lives of others through them. You are a unique creation designed with a purpose. Soul work is leaning on inspired teachings, learning to trust yourself, and loving the lover of your soul. Charlotte can help. She’s done serious soul work.
Charlotte’s messages through her blog, her books, her coaching, and her speaking give you insights into how to navigate life through soul work.
Taking action
- Understand your purpose
- Find where you belong
- Be your best self
Soul work Journal:
Wholeness for your soul through balance
Discover inner balance and resilience with the Soul Work Journal. This unique journal guides you through nurturing the Spiritual, Environmental, Emotional, and Physical aspects of your soul, empowering you to face life’s challenges with confidence and peace.
Use this journal to check in with yourself daily. It’s more than writing—it’s a commitment to your soul’s well-being. Create a personal space, embrace growth, and allow yourself to be nourished naturally.
Begin your journey to wholeness. The Soul Work Journal is your companion on the path to a balanced, fulfilled life.
Blog Articles at a Glance
From Invisible to Awake: The Day I Stopped Earning Love
Bryan and I were reflecting on how hard it was when we realized we were going to have to get a divorce from our abusive first marriages. We were both previously married for 22 years. When we met, I was separated, and he was divorced. Our first marriages mirrored each other. We each stayed in … Read more
Pretend Relationships and the Cost of Keeping the Façade
Pretend relationships are required to maintain a dysfunctional façade. I was too naive or trusting to realize I was the only one in all my relationships before now who cared enough to make changes. I learned, through unimaginable heartache, that I was making myself into someone people would like. I was looking for love from … Read more
Recovery and Reconnection After Intentional Isolation
A unique aspect of recovering from a life of traumatic abuse and neglect has been learning to connect with people with whom I previously remained isolated. My insecurities kept me out of the smart circles where I am now comfortably seated. After over fifty years, I have developed the mental clarity that was stolen from … Read more
It was my first tear-free holiday in a very long time.
I used to love the holidays, the decorating, the distraction from my own painful day-to-day living a lie as I hid my very lonely reality as an abuse victim. During the holidays, it seemed everyone was in great spirits. The holidays were among the few times I could hold onto, reinforcing the illusions required by … Read more
Chosen, Not Rejected: Finding God’s Provision in Painful Seasons
The holidays can amplify pain when we’re not spending them with people we hoped to be with. Everyone experiences it at some point, but some of us are accepting new realities from painful but necessary boundaries with people who can’t carry the tenderness of our souls in love. I want to encourage you not to … Read more
The Illusion of Love in Narcissistic Abuse
Understanding that my abuse was not my fault took a lot longer than anyone might imagine. Logically, we all know abuse is not the victim’s fault, but the devil is the author of narcissism and uses lies and people who are willing to tell them, to destroy innocence. Abuse victims are not in touch with … Read more
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